「我發現⋯自己被手機綁架了!」
這也許是現代人的網路生活型態過度發展,以及對於資訊傳播的速度與過量有關。臉書、IG、Line、WhatsApp、微信...各種社群軟體,原意是為了帶來人際互動便利與省時的工具,反過來卻悄悄地成為可怕的時間殺手。
我的手機螢幕出現一個很有趣的紀錄。它告訴我在每個不同平台我花了多少的使用時間。讓我意識到自己多麼頻繁地在看手機,也慢慢地看到原來我花了很多時間在關注外面的事物。
◆我點開Line不斷傳來各種訊息,不管它是否重要。
◆我毫無節制地瀏覽臉書友人的貼文,每個都按讚。
◆我焦急著想要完成待辦清單上的事情,因為時間永遠都不夠用。
◆我惦記著被擱置延遲的事情,想著該如何趕快完成它。
我什麼都關注、什麼都想要處理完成。於是,我開始變著急躁,因時間不夠而開始覺得壓力,甚至忙得昏頭轉向、疲憊不堪。
我忘記檢視自己的內心「什麼才是最重要的?」
我忘記自己總是很貪心,又很容易分心。以致於重要的事情一不小心就被擱置了。
於是,我決定跟這個很容易偷走時間的小偷保持距離。
我把手機打入冷宮,放在我無法隨手可以拿起來的地方。
我重新開始做原本我覺得重要並且有意義的事情,而不是看手機。
~試著放空,靜靜地內省
~看喜歡的書
~聽喜歡的音樂
~打電話給一個很久不見的好友
在這些過程中,我的內心開始累積許多寶貴的能量,關於愛、關於平靜,關於真正的自己是誰?!
在這個過程中,我與自己的內在深深地連結,感受到什麼是「安住在當下」。
體會到安住在當下所帶來的力量,與自己的內在連結,與身邊的人連結,與自己正在經歷的一切連結。
而不再是心不在焉、一心多用、匆匆忙忙、焦躁不安。
很感恩、很喜悅、很平靜!!
與此刻的您們分享這一切!!
Love you all. ☺️🙏💗
#每日一正能量
~想改變世界,先改變自己
#每日一感恩
~感恩 蔻特妮‧卡佛《療癒人生》
~Coutney Carver
#靈魂的精簡之道 #Soulful_Simplicity
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原來我love you so much 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 的精選貼文
【天青色等煙雨,而我在等你】(English writing below)
我看著客人眼淚
滴滴答答的打在桌面上
筆記本
濕了
本子上的字
糊了
她的心酸
猶如洪泉遇到崩裂的堤壩
一波一浪的破牆而出
一個被愛情辜負的女子
看了真是心疼
我不由自覺的
想到了自己
你懂我的
像我這樣剛烈的女子
爲了愛情
我絕不退縮
祇是一個勇字
又豈能成事呢
童年
過得心驚膽顫
家裡常吵得
雞犬不寧
爸爸沒想要
把我生下
媽媽常說
要把我趕出去
我很努力讀書
我很努力做個乖孩子
我覺得我做得很好
人小小本事很大
但這些終究無法
讓我在美滿的家庭長大
多少個夜晚裡
我被媽媽打得
想奪門而出
永不再見
可是想到誰來照顧她
我又忍下來
我很恨
為何我命運不如人
第一次談戀愛時
我是多麼多麼的雀躍
內心裡的煙花
不斷地爆開
我終於等到了
不再是
沒人要的孩子了
我終於
值得有人愛了
初戀的絢麗
卻也如七彩美麗的煙花
一聲巨響後
就消失在漆黑的夜裡
他常常在我面前
提到他如何深愛著
他中學時的校花
她是如此的美好
有一次
這校花來我們的學校
他得知後
破課室的門而出
沒見到她
他哭了一整個星期
心中的不安
讓我常常與他吵架
三年零八個月裡
我不是一個好女友
服滿兵役後
他喜歡上大學迎新會
的一位混血兒
後來
我和一位校友打了幾次桌球
某夜
他在ICQ向我索吻
對他的印象
就一落千丈了
(你以為老娘在賤賣嗎?)
不久一位朋友告訴我
他約會的對象
不只我一個
我有一位
很好很好的朋友
我在新加坡時
他常陪我
深夜打桌球到清晨
聊佛法聊人生
一起上佛學班
一起學國標舞
從未有一個人
如此瞭解我的心
如此照顧著我
但無所不談的當兒
他也不斷告訴
這麼多年來
他如何愛念著
一個女孩
對她始終無法忘懷
我又輸給
活在記憶中的人了
我這一份單戀
長達兩年
很磨人很磨人很磨人
差一點走不出來
第二次談戀愛
他常在我面前提起
一個他追了半年追不到的女孩
他說
有一天一定要去問她
為什麼不選擇他
在家裡的毒打
並沒有隨著我成人
而停止
後來拜師學藝
卻因爲品德不良
被師父一句
「你不是我要找的人。」
斷然吃了閉門羹
那天我哭得痛徹心扉
覺得自己
好像是
個沒人要的孩子
方文山因爲
八百年前
宋徽宗皇帝御批的這句
「雨過天青雲破處」
而在周傑倫《青花瓷》裡
寫了『天青色等煙雨,而我在等你』
他說
愛情里最無力的無奈
就是「等待」
天青色得等待
不知何時會降的雨
雨停
積雲散去
朗朗晴空中
天青色才能顯現
如同我
只能被动而安静的
等待着
不知何时才会出现的妳。
慢慢的
我開始認為
我這輩子等不到了
月老應該沒幫我
綁上紅線
學佛多年後
忽然恍然大悟
一個道理
没有东西是必须拥有的
沒有它
也不代表自己的不足
愛情
是一個填不滿的慾望
所以愛情劇長紅
在2015年2月21日年初三,根本上師蓮生活佛在台灣中天綜合電視台的訪談中說:https://youtu.be/EPDxwSt6a5I (時間12:08)
「師尊本身的愛是這樣的。我既然愛她,就是要她幸福,不是要佔有她,這種愛不是佔有,其實愛不是佔有。如果愛是佔有的話,那就是屬於慾望。如果愛不是佔有,我是祝福她,雖然我愛她,她不愛我,她愛別人,我就祝福她。如果愛別人會比較幸福,我就祝福她。這種愛就不是佔有的愛。如果是佔有的愛,一定會產生痛苦。」
原來我真正在等的
是自己
自己的智慧開了
心變闊達時
才不會讓他人決定
自己幾時可以幸福
可以幸福多久
命運在我手中
怎麼走本來就是我說了算
我輕輕的拿起桌上的紙巾,遞給女客人。她一把鼻涕,一把眼淚的向我道謝。
借了師父慣用的笑話,我柔聲細語的說:「別哭,新加坡缺水,要哭要到蓄水池哭,這樣我們可以少看馬來西亞的臉色做人。」
她破涕而笑。
我再說:「我看了妳的八字,現在又看到妳真人,勸你跟我講話老實一點,要不然我幫不到妳。妳明明一直做人家的小三,還敢跟我哭沒有男人要和妳結婚?妳不也偷偷拿了他不少錢嗎?我看妳明明就是一張愛錢的臉。」
奉勸各位大俠,在我面前,若要用眼淚爲武器,請三思,因爲虛偽的,我必定拆你面具。
..........................
I looked at the teardrops of my client, pitter patter onto the table top. My client's notebook got wet. The words got muddled.
All the pains in her heart were like the angry river crushing through a broken dam, tearing down the walls as the tears flowed.
To see a lady being let down by love was indeed heart-breaking.
I couldn't help but thought of myself.
You know me. An unyielding character like mine will not shrink like a coward in the name of love. Alas, there are things in life that can't be accomplished solely with courage.
My childhood was filled with a lot of fear. There were often quarrels at home.
My dad didn't want me to be born. My mum often said she wanted to chase me out of the house.
I studied very hard. I did my utmost to be an obedient kid, and I thought I did very well as young child but I was already very capable. However, all these were not enough for me to grow up in a complete family.
So many nights, I got beaten up so badly by my mum that I wanted to just break out of the door and never to see her again. But the mere thought of nobody looking after her pulled me back.
I hated so much. Why wasn't my destiny comparable to other people?
When I first fell in love, I was so elated. The fireworks in my heart exploded non-stop. I finally found someone. I was no longer that child which nobody wanted. I was finally worthy of someone's love.
The splendour of first love, however, was as temporal as the rainbow-coloured fireworks. After a loud explosion, it vanished into the darkness of night.
He would often tell me in my face, how much he pined for and loved his secondary school crush, apparently the prettiest and most perfect girl in school.
Once, this campus belle came to our school. When he got wind of the news, he dashed out of the classroom. Failing to see her, he cried for one whole week.
My insecurity caused me to quarrel with him often. In those 3 years and 8 months, I wasn't a great girlfriend. After his NS, he got together with a girl of mixed blood at his university's Orientation camp.
I played pool with a uni mate a few times. One night over ICQ, he teased me for a kiss. My impression of him dropped like hot cakes. Did I look like I was lelong-ing myself? Later, a girl pal told me that he was dating several girls at the same time.
I had a very good friend. Whenever I was in Singapore, he would accompany me to play pool till wee hours. We talked about Dharma, life, and we attended Buddhism and ballroom dancing classes together. I had never met a person who understood me and took care of me so well.
But among our endless conversations of everything and anything, he always told me how he still loved a girl from his school. He couldn't forget her.
Again, I lost to someone who lived in the memory of the guy I liked.
This one-sided love of mine burned for two years. It was very, very, very excruciating. I almost didn't make it out alive.
In my second relationship, the boyfriend would always tell me about a pretty girl whom he pursued for half a year, but failed to win her heart. He told me firmly that if he had the chance, he wanted to ask her why she did not choose him.
The abusive beating at home did not stop even after I grew up.
Later on, when I wanted to become Shifu's disciple, he turned me down flat because he didn't think I had good morals and values. He was blunt, "You are not the person I am looking for."
That night, I cried painfully hard. Suddenly, I felt like I was the kid from my childhood whom nobody wanted.
800 years ago, Emperor Huizong of Song Dynasty wrote in an imperial decree "雨過天青雲破處". It was this that inspired Vincent Fang (方文山) to write the lyrics 『天青色等煙雨,而我在等你』in Jay Chou's song 青花瓷 (Blue and white porcelain).
Vincent Fang said, the most powerless kind of helplessness in love was waiting.
The sky green colour had to wait for the rain, which it had no idea when it would arrive. After the rain stopped, the thick clouds dissipated, in the clear skies, the sky green colour would then be able to appear. This was just like how he could only passively and quietly wait, for his lady whom he had no idea when she would appear.
Gradually, I started thinking that in this lifetime, I would not be able to wait for that person to appear. Perhaps Yue Lao (the elderly celestial under the moon) did not tie the red string on me.
After many years of learning the Dharma, one day, I suddenly came to the realisation that nothing is a must to own.
Secular love is a black hole of desires. That is why romantic shows are evergreen.
On 21 February 2015, the 3rd day of the Lunar New Year, my Root Guru Living Buddha Lian-Sheng spoke in an interview with the Taiwan CTI Television Inc.: https://youtu.be/EPDxwSt6a5I (timestamp 12:08)
"My personal take on love is this. Since I love her, I will want her to be blissful, and not to possess her. Such love isn't possession. Actually love isn't possession. If love is possession, that belongs to desire. If love isn't desire, I will wish her well. Although I love her, she doesn't love me, but loves another person, so I will give her my best wishes. If loving another person brings her more happiness, I will wish her well. Such love isn't possessive love. If it is possessive love, there will surely be pain."
Then I realised, the one that I had been waiting all along for is myself. Waiting for my wisdom to develop, waiting for my heart to be more open, so that I would not place my happiness in the hands of another person, and let the person decide for me when I should be happy, for how long I can stay happy...
My destiny is in my hands. How it pans out is up to me to say.
I gently picked up a serviette from the table and passed it to my lady client. In a mush of mucus and tears, she thanked me.
Borrowing an old joke from Shifu, I gently told her, "Don't cry. Singapore lacks water. If you want to cry, you should cry at a nearby reservoir. This way, we don't have to see the colours of Malaysia in order to get more water."
She broke into a smile among her tears.
I continued, "After looking at your Bazi, and now that I have seen you in person, I advise you to be more honest with me, or else I will not be able to help you. You have all along been a mistress to other men, and you dare to come crying to me that no man wanted to marry you? Didn't you also stole some money from them? The way I see you, you obviously have a money grubber face."
My advice to all swordsmen: If you wish to use your tears as a weapon in front of me, think thrice. Because if you are a hypocrite, I will definitely rip your mask apart.
原來我love you so much 在 Kimman Wong 黃劍文 Facebook 的最佳解答
感恩 能夠參與 全民造星3
讓我 忘記背後努力面前 👍🏻
令我重新去認識另一個自己
(原來我都可以)
同大家分享吓我嘅感受 進入40強
由B4組轉去B1組 一開始 我心裏面係有唔捨得 B4 組 因為始終我都係一個人
相處左兩個幾禮拜 由有意見不合 有磨擦 直到修補 和好 一條心去做好表演
中間經歷嘅嘢 都係珍貴嘅❤️
人始終係要成長 , 一個功課學習 再接另一個功課學習 。
重新投入係 B1組
第一星期練習 感覺到 大家渴望做好表演嘅心 我慢慢被感染 ❤️
一開始大家可能覺得我 唔夠投入
因為係第一星期 我身體唔舒服 每日要食藥 , 食到自己冇乜精神 。
喺大家開會嘅時候 我竟然係瞓着咗
由嗰陣時開始 大家已經開始叫我 黃伯
長話短說 ⋯
真係好享受 同大家一齊練習嘅時光
好欣賞 大家努力求進步
邊度做得唔好 就由邊度努力 練習做好
彼此提醒 不斷努力去改善
我比大家嘅勤力 用心 投入
令我都全心 投入 去做好兩個表演
真心好欣賞大家
非常珍貴嘅一段時光 ❤️
我會好好記住 ❤️
誇誇群 😆 大家出場前 , 都係準備出去玩嘅心 ❤️ 好想做好個表演 , 將歡樂嘅氣氛 帶比大家 , 收到嘅人 , 我哋會好開心 ❤️
我自己 的確係 Toy Story 嘅fan 🤩
冇諗過自己會飾演 其中一個角色
我相信我哋無論 長大到幾多歲
其實我哋內裏 都有一個 童心 ❤️
再次 多謝 我們敬愛的 #彭秀慧 @kearenpang
非常多謝 感激 係妳 教我 享受個舞台
去愛上個舞台 。
多謝妳嘅教導 同我哋分享妳嘅經歷
妳嘅舞台經驗 。
妳每一次示範嘅演繹 ,都令我好佩服 。 每一次諗出嚟嘅橋段 ,都好有畫面。
係妳令我 發現 「原來我都可以」 我能夠演繹 , 我能夠做到 。 🥺
妳一直嘅陪伴 , 每一個鼓勵 。
都成為左我推動力 , 去做好每一個表演。
感激 呢一段成長嘅經歷 ❤️
非常多謝 花姐 @ahfa0908 好多次妳都講 客氣嘅說話唔使講
多謝妳為我哋呢一班 有夢想嘅人
給予一個機會 , 讓我哋 可以有個舞台 去表現自己 嘅音樂同藝術 🙌🏻❤️
感激
再次多謝 B1 組員
@akilee7 @kikicheungg @carcar.carman @impollylau
多謝你哋 一齊經歷 一場好好玩嘅表演
同埋一個 連自己都感動嘅 故事
我唔係隨便講㗎 -
我愛你們 ❤️
I Love team B @kingmaker_iii_b
Thank you so much @ssc_swah
多謝你 幫我哋排舞 改完又改 辛苦晒你 😁👍🏻👍🏻
Thank you so much @tl1226
多謝你 幫我地彈琴 全靠你 💪🏻💪🏻
#全民造星3
#全民造星iii
#全民造星iiib組
#love #life #lovelife
#music #singing
#musical
原來我love you so much 在 ClumsyCynthia 黃可樂 Youtube 的最佳解答
------- OPEN ME FOR INFO 打開我打開我打開我 --------
Hi everyone! I am experimenting VLOGGING! I had so much fun recording part of my life and what I eat in a day (also realized how unhealthy I eat hahaha
I apologize for switching to Mandarin eventually :P I did not realize it until I started editing... but still hope you guys like it xoxo
原來我一整天吃得如此不健康 不拍起來都不知道自己吃這麼多
偷偷帶你們看一下我平常上班日的超剪輯版 其實沒有什麼特別的
但希望你們喜歡我苦中作樂的小小vlog
別忘記訂閱我的頻道 喜歡的話給這個影片一個like唷!
I love snap and Instagram, they are literally the reasons why I live. (jk)
Snapchat: cynthiahuanggg_
Instagram: clumsycynthia
Facebook: Clumsy Cynthia
: Previous Videos :
5 Lessons I Learned From Studying Abroad - https://youtu.be/PQ6e_WVubLs
Feb Favorites - https://youtu.be/2a2rr3XJVRg
Yoga Diary - https://youtu.be/4Rc7FVRi3L8
Community College Experiences - https://youtu.be/H90g_ZP1TdU
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