很多媽媽都會花很多時間跟初生BB聊天講故事,想好好陪伴他,不過部分人可能都試過被旁人潑冷水:「搞掂阿B食痾瞓咪得囉,佢咁細個邊識得咁多嘢啫。仲話要做全職媽媽湊仔添,其實請個人返嚟換片餵奶就得啦。」要照顧BB,放個人在旁邊就夠?事實真的如此?
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生兒育女之後,許多媽媽心底可能都有一刻掙扎過:究竟全職在家陪伴孩子成長好,還是繼續留在職場「搏殺」,實現自我價值,兼且為子女多賺點教育基金好?
香港的媽媽大多如何選擇?根據政府統計處的調查,育有六歲以下子女的媽媽,10個當中有6個會選擇做全職媽媽。
我們當然明白,媽媽或爸爸在職與否,每個家庭都有自己的獨特狀況和考慮因素,但撇開那本「家家難唸的經」不談,單純地討論「教養」這個話題,全職和在職媽媽所養育的子女其實都各有擅長。
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「香港女性勞工供應:照顧子女的責任與投身工作的決定」,《二零一四年半年經濟報告(專題5.1)》,香港特別行政區政府。
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