Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the other marriage is unhappy.
Is it because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
1. The first reason is because everything wives do. Wash the wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While this wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His solehah wife HELPS to do work. Help and help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not coming back, you're going to say to your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash all the clothes."
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy to do together. Don't be easy together. When it's hard to pass to the partner. No no ♀️🙅🏻 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons is because we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our respective partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim says.
1-Feed full-full food. Zahir dan Batin. May everything be considered worship. Aamiin ya Rabb.
2-Where did the husband go, follow! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone after someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband to die and then you'll say, ′′ nothing is the same as my husband / wife before." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share our house, together, a pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as long as we know him. That's why the wife knows her husband than her mother knows her.
But a wise man, a religious man, a religious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There's a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who are still Allah who doesn't answer their prayers for couples. So be grateful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, who doesn't know what all. So if we get a couple hat like that, learn to appreciate it even though she is not beautiful to boroi.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, not comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most FEARFUL. Choosing the religious, overcoming everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become fun with each other. Ye, learn to be a fun person each other's partner.
If our partner likes it so much, so we need to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, the others let Allah decide. God willing.
The Ustaz has shared again, this disaster has come in 3 forms:
• TEST
• REGRET
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage is always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually what Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious to marry an evil Pharaoh. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is pious, the prayer is not left, the reading is not missed, the fasting is full but years of not having a child. That's his name test. And this test is nothing else to lift our position of taqwa and faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second one, the disaster that comes in the form of reprimand. This is what Allah sends because Allah wants to ask us to return to goodness.
Example, we are not carelessly chasing money here, rich here, Allah gives accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance. That's a reprimand. Maybe we pray without humility. We do worship but it's a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to give us back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah does not do anything in vain.
The last one is this disaster, come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to accept it. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Acceptance for all Allah's tests.
If one second Allah will test the provision of a long soulmate, there is no fortune to be together.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't afford it, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a greedy person ❤️
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