我是一個肥仔❤️
育兒簡直是一個比phD還要複雜的研究題目
在最近看的育兒書中，印象最深的是這一段：
What does respect mean, in terms of parents and children? It means
accepting, enjoying, and loving your child as she is and not expecting her to
do what she cannot do. It means allowing your child the time, the space,
and the love and support to be herself and to discover the world in her own
unique way. It means trying to understand her point of view.
To respect your child is to believe in her competence and see her as
dependent on you rather than helpless. It is to accept and support both her
dependence and independence, based on the developmental stage she is in.
It is love plus consideration, treating your child as you would treat an
honored guest. To respect your child is to create a little distance so that you
refrain from interfering with her experience of encountering life.
有時候在教養小孩上，不經意就會走火入魔，想要逼小孩變成我們自己幻想所要的人。又或有時候忘記了小朋友的能力很強，可以做到的事情其實在我們幻想之上。
在如何教導メロンパン的問題上，我還在努力摸索，如何才能誘導他成為一個有自信、獨立思想而且聽話的寶寶。很多時候我也跌進了一個圈套：肥仔他不會自行入睡、他都不玩xxxx。昨天和我中學時代的良師益友閒談，Bella一言驚醒夢中人：你有無教肥仔先？你有比時間佢學嘛？
這一年來，常常在移民、讀書的論壇上，看到不少媽媽為孩子張羅讀書、交通等事情。見過媽媽擔心孩子自己坐飛機，不知道如何處理隔離問題，又或媽媽為即將進大學的孩子苦惱應該選擇哪一所大學、哪一個學科。這樣的做法好嗎？實在很見仁見智，也許媽媽學識比較豐富，可以幫助孩子做一個更好的選擇或安排。但如此同時，我也相信15、6歲，或即將入大學的孩子，其實在internet裡可以看到的信息也許比我們更多，更加知道如何挑選大學，也知道如何安排交通。選擇何時放手，永遠是一個難題。
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